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The Culture of Experience: Why Travel, Food & Events Are Self-Education
We live in an era where documenting the experience often outweighs having it. Travel has become a trophy. Food is now aesthetic currency. Events are just the backdrop for a fit check. Somehow in the middle of all that noise, the meaning of these moments is getting lost. But hear me out: Your life experiences are your real education. Where you go, what you eat, who you meet, & how you move, all of it builds your identity in ways a classroom or course never could. Before you
Nov 222 min read


Style Isn’t Enough: Curate Your Identity, Not Your Closet
Let’s be honest. Most people look good now. It’s not 2011 anymore. Fashion is accessible. We all know how to put an outfit together, or at least fake it. But looking good is surface level. Knowing who you are while doing it? That’s substance. Too many people are dressing like the life they want, not the one they live in. They’re borrowing vibes from strangers, sliding into silhouettes they saw on TikTok, and accessorizing their insecurity. Style has become cosplay for confide
Nov 152 min read


‘I can’t do this anymore’ says a girl who’s not only going to do it but do it well.
She reaches her limit, convinced she can’t go any further and then she does. She writes the essay, cleans the house, folds the washing, and wakes up to do it again. It’s not an exception but a pattern that runs quietly through communities, workplaces, and homes, most clearly in the women who raised us. For them, determination isn’t a choice; it’s survival, and somehow, it still turns into excellence. The numbers reflect this reality. According to the Higher Education Statisti
Nov 124 min read


The Point Of It All: Art, Music and the Soul
I wanted to become a writer for a simple, unpractical reason. I wanted others to see life from my point of view. This ambition, I quickly learned, does not feature on any standard productivity metric. In a world obsessed with optimisation, wanting to be a great storyteller can feel like announcing you’re training to become a professional cloud-watcher. It’s nice, but what’s the point? I feel this tension every day. We all do. A recent survey found that 65% of UK workers exper
Nov 54 min read


The Apartment Era, Pt. II: You Don’t Want a Bachelor Pad, You Want Belonging
You ever walk into an apartment and feel like you’re standing in a placeholder? The couch is there, but barely. The art is “still coming.” The silverware drawer is a war crime. And the energy? Dead. It’s not that it’s ugly. It’s just… unfinished. Not in the cool, minimal way. Unfinished like someone who doesn’t fully believe he belongs in his own life yet. I used to call it my bachelor pad. It was easier than admitting I just never really moved in. Sure, my stuff was there. M
Oct 252 min read


Stop Being a Vibe: Start Being a Man
There’s a certain type of guy walking around right now that’s all… vibe. You know the one. He’s got five tattoos, four of which don’t mean anything. He drinks espresso martinis but calls them “a ritual.” He has a therapist, but only quotes her when he’s trying to win an argument. He curates a life. But he doesn't build one. He’s not a bad guy. He just thinks having “energy” is the same thing as having integrity. Hear me out: It’s not. We are in the golden era of performative
Oct 182 min read


The Jury of the Internet: How Social Media Has Been Inundated with Opinions
When season 7 of Peacock’s Love Island USA aired this summer it was more than just another lineup of flirtations in Fiji. It became a...
Oct 153 min read


Nobody Wants Your Potential: We Want Proof
Let me say this gently, but not too gently: Your potential doesn’t mean shit if we never see it. Yeah, I know, harsh. But someone had to...
Oct 112 min read


Everything Works Out for My Good: Reckless Optimism and the Art of Trusting Tomorrow
Reckless optimism has always spoken to me. It is the belief that even in the most uncertain moments, things will find a way of working...
Oct 82 min read


You Don’t Need a Purpose Yet: But You Do Need Direction
Somewhere along the way, “purpose” became the new flex. You used to be able to just... exist. Maybe decent at your job, maybe just...
Oct 42 min read


Your Weekend Agenda Says More About You Than Your Job Title
Everybody with a good job loves to flex their nine-to-five. “I’m in finance.” “I’m in tech.” “I’m a creative strategist.” Cool. But, to...
Sep 272 min read


Be the Person Everyone Chases
Everybody wants to be seen right now. You scroll and it’s endless people performing for likes, begging for shares, chasing moments that...
Sep 202 min read


Your Group Chat Will Judge You Before They Do
Here’s the thing nobody wants to admit: your love life has never been a one-on-one sport. The second you even think about catching...
Sep 132 min read


Your Apartment Is Part of Your Résumé
If you’ve ever eaten takeout on a moving box because your couch is still “in transit,” congratulations, you’re living in that...
Sep 63 min read


She’s Not Asking for Too Much, You’re Just Giving the Bare Minimum
Let’s clear something up off rip: most women aren’t asking for too much. You’re just giving the bare minimum and calling it effort. We’ve...
Jun 283 min read


100 Things To Do vs Your Twenties
“You’re only twenty something! You’ll figure it out”. “You have so much time, you’re sooo young!” …. “Wait, you don’t have savings? But...
May 212 min read


Chivalry in 2025: What Still Matters and What’s Dead
There was a time when chivalry meant throwing your coat over a puddle so a woman wouldn’t have to step in it. Today, she would probably...
Apr 234 min read


The High Cost of Cheap Clothes: Fast Fashion’s Earth Day Illusion
Every year on 22nd April, Earth Day rolls around, a moment to reflect on how we treat our planet. In theory, it’s about celebrating...
Apr 213 min read


Why Men Should Have a Signature Spot and How to Pick One
Listen, having a go to spot is one of those things that separates a guy who moves with intention from a guy who’s just winging it. It is...
Apr 143 min read


How Your Fave Celebs Spent Valentine’s Day: Love, luxe and cozy nights in!
How your fave celebs spent valentine’s day 2025, love, luxe and cozy nights in Valentine’s Day is always a vibe, and if there’s one...
Feb 172 min read
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